TEDx Speaker | Amazon Best-Selling Co-Author | Executive Coach | New Book Coming Fall 2026
About the Keynote
Organizations invest in culture, engagement, wellness, inclusion, and leadership development because they want people to thrive, own the work, and drive the mission. Yet the culture people experience often falls short of what leaders intended, and so do the outcomes.
In this keynote, Cheryle reveals why valuable initiatives cannot carry the culture alone when everyday behavior teaches something different. Protection-driven wiring may push leaders toward control while team members retreat into caution, compliance, or dependence. Different reactions begin reinforcing the same culture.
Through relevant stories, purposeful humor, and one immediately usable leadership direction, audiences discover how Courageous Curiosity℠ helps leaders lead themselves, their people, and performance in ways that strengthen contribution, ownership, accountability, and mission-aligned results.
You cannot build culture one initiative at a time. You build it every minute of every day.
What changes when culture becomes the habitat for how people work and perform?
The shift is from culture as an initiative to culture as the way people think, act, own the work, and deliver the mission together.
Greater contribution. Clearer accountability. Stronger execution. A culture people choose to carry forward.
Is This Keynote Right For Your Room?
A quick planner-friendly snapshot to help you decide if Your Default Is Showing is the right fit for your audience, event format, and leadership goals.
Who It’s For
The right audience fit
- CEOs and founders who need culture that empower their people, and achieve mission.
- Leaders at all levels who are accountable for engagement, ownership, accountability, and performance.
- Mixed-level audiences, including HR, L&D, Talent, and People leaders supporting culture and leadership initiatives.
What Your Audience Leaves With
Immediate value they can use
- Culture as the habitat for engagement and performance.
- Why initiatives fail when behavior contradicts them.
- How reactions shape contribution and ownership.
- Courageous Curiosity℠ to lead self, people, and performance.
Built for Your Event
Flexible for planners
- 45- or 60-minute keynote.
- In-person or virtual.
- Customized by leadership level, industry, organizational priorities, and event goals.
- Expanded workshop available.
Need bios, headshots, AV requirements, or an approved introduction? Visit Event Planner Resources.
See Cheryle In Action
Through relevant stories, purposeful humor, and audience reflection, Cheryle helps leaders see how everyday choices shape what people expect, contribute, and own. She turns culture from an abstract ideal into practical leadership choices audiences can use immediately.
“I watched the crowd leaning in, laughing, nodding, doing that ‘yep, that’s me’ half-smile. She didn’t just hold the room; she owned it, rented it out, and left everybody a little better on the way out.
She’s flat-out funny, but the humor isn’t just for giggles. It’s how she sneaks past your defenses so the real message hits you before you have time to say, ‘I’m fine, I don’t need this.’”
— Frank King, Speaker and Comedian
Why Cheryle
A leader who has lived the challenge she teaches
Cheryle Hays, The Human Potentialist℠, is a leadership keynote speaker, executive coach, and author with more than 25 years of experience across academic, technology, service, and manufacturing environments.
While developing a frontline and middle-management program, she saw firsthand why even strong initiatives can fail when everyday leadership creates a different culture. That experience helped shape her belief that culture is not a side initiative. It is the habitat in which engagement, growth, strategy, and execution either flourish or die.
Today, she helps leaders use Courageous Curiosity℠ to turn human dynamics into greater ownership, stronger performance, and cultures that help people and the mission succeed together. Her book, Courageous Curiosity: For Leaders Brave Enough to Lead Differently, publishes in Fall 2026 through Maxwell Leadership.
TEDx Speaker | Amazon Best-Selling Co-Author | Executive Coach | EMBA, Texas Christian University
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this keynote only for executives or HR leaders?
No. Culture is shaped at every level. This keynote is designed for CEOs, senior leaders, managers, directors, and mixed-level leadership audiences. HR, L&D, Talent, and People leaders are important sponsors and participants, but the message belongs to every people leader.
Is this keynote critical of culture, wellness, inclusion, engagement, or leadership-development initiatives?
No. Those initiatives can create real value. This keynote explains why they cannot carry the culture alone when everyday behavior teaches people something different.
Does this keynote blame leaders for culture problems?
No. Shared responsibility does not mean identical responsibility. Leaders shape the environment and expectations; everyone strengthens or weakens the culture through what they contribute, own, reinforce, and deliver.
Is this a psychological-safety keynote?
Psychological safety is part of the message, but not the whole message. This keynote connects safety with accountability, ownership, engagement, performance, and the mission.
What does it mean to call culture the “habitat”?
Culture is the environment in which engagement, growth, strategy, and execution either flourish or die. It is created through the daily choices, expectations, behaviors, and follow-through people experience and repeat.
What can attendees use immediately?
Attendees leave with Courageous Curiosity℠ as an immediate leadership choice and one question: What is this response teaching people to expect, contribute, and own?
What is the difference between the keynote and the workshop?
The keynote creates recognition, shared language, and an immediate leadership choice. The expanded workshop provides more time to apply the concepts to real situations, decisions, team dynamics, and organizational priorities.
What keynote formats and event-planning resources are available?
Your Default Is Showing is available as a 45- or 60-minute keynote, delivered in person or virtually. An expanded workshop is also available. Visit the Event Planner Resources page for Cheryle’s bios, headshots, approved introduction, AV requirements, and other planning materials.
Can the keynote be customized for our organization and event goals?
Yes. The keynote can be customized by leadership level, audience mix, industry language, organizational priorities, culture challenges, and event goals.
What formats are available, and how is the workshop different?
Your Culture Is Showing is available as a 45- or 60-minute keynote, in person or virtually. The keynote creates recognition, shared language, and one usable shift. The expanded workshop gives participants time to apply Courageous Curiosity℠ and R³℠ through reflection, scenarios, discussion, and practice.
Bring this keynote to your audience -
and turn human dynamics into leadership capacity and business performance.
Invite Cheryle Hays to speak on Your Default Is Showing at your conference, leadership meeting, or organizational event, and give leaders a practical way to move from default to design.
